As an adoptive parent I have know Steven Kirsh as an well organised and honest person. We flew in to the USA and the birthmother did not wanted to sign. She made this decision after asking us to come. We respected her choice and flew back, as Steven Kirsh advised us to do. \r
Steven respected the birthmothers wish, despite all the energy he took in her through talking, visiting etc. On Stevens advise we did not keep contact with the birthmother, besides telling her good luck with her beautiful baby. Two months later we adopted a beautiful girl, the birthmother was rejected by an other couple and Kirsh & Kirsh gave her lots op opportunities to make a new decision about keeping the baby or going to find an other couple. We are glad she choose us. We are still in contact with her. And after flying in from the Netherlands 2 years ago we met Steven Kirsh again and he helped aranging a meeting with the birthmother. \r
We are very greatful for the way we have been treated and the way he treated the birthmothers we were in contact with.\r
I wish DeeDee peace with the decision she made and a good contact with the adoptive parents. DeeDee, you made a desicion, but not a forced desicion by Steven or Joel Kirsh. By law there is not a way to redicide your decision. What the ethics on this issue may be, be sure you make good contact with the adoptive parents and wish them happiness and peace. It is all for the wellbeing of your and their child.
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