There was no end to the hostility and bickering in our relationship. We were both thinking of going our separate ways. One of our friends suggested we get some help and recommended a psychologist. Dr Phyllis Kivel turned out to be a great. She told us what we had to to do to make things better.
It took a lot of work and we had to change - not just blame each other. Our home life is a lot less stressful and our physical relationship is much better. Anyway, I just wanted to say that if my relationship could be fixed there is hope for other people in the same boat. Dr. Kivel was always professional, very nice and very smart. We both felt she was evenhanded. She deserves a lot of credit.
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