I am one of the women who has been stopped in the mall and asked where I get my hair done. I am also one of the women who has to sneak and scheme to get my ""relaxer"" to stay in for a few extra minutes. Why? Because my stylist says that my hair has a ""natural curl pattern"" and I do not really need a relaxer. Subsequently, she will only lightly touch up the very front edge of my head to appease me. It is so patronizing! \r
But, when I walk into the mall, or into church, or into the office at work, or anywhere... I LOVE MY STYLIST! I NEVER, EVER loved my hair until I began going to ITMH 7 years ago. I kept my long hair in a ponytail most of the time and NEVER enjoyed it. The stylists at ITMH are committed to the health and wellness of the individual's hair. They will not give you what you request IF it will cause damage to your hair, even if it costs them your business. Why? I have come to understand that it is because they are trained to repair and beautify hair...not to damage it. \r
At ITMH, I was taught all about my hair, how to maximize its' beauty and how to keep it healthy. Haircuts provoke anxiety. But, I learned how to reduce the anxiety by being as clear as possible about EVERY haircut even if it is just to trim an existing one. We always have a brief but poignant discussion prior to the haircut. I am firm and specific about the length I love and want, as well as about the length I do not want. I clarify and make sure that my stylist understands my needs regarding the cut I am getting that day, and I do not engage in conversation while the haircut is going on. \r
I am continuously pleased with the attention and professional care given to my hair. My stylist's ""advice"" to forego getting a relaxer is one of the main reasons that I am enjoying my hair so much. It is fuller and easier to style because of its' ""natural curl pattern."" I thought that since I had thin hair, layers would make it look even thinner. My stylist taught me that they actually present the hair as fuller, and once again, she was right. It was not easy giving up control to her, but the results have been irrefutable and my hair gets a lot of unintended attention. The fact that they attend professional development workshops and conferences on an ongoing basis has earned my respect and complete confidence regarding what is best for my hair. \r
Clients are pampered with light refreshments, fruit, coffee and/or tea. It does my soul so much good to see a FAMILY of WOMEN working together day in and day out with an obvious love and respect for one another.\r
Love My Hair,\r
Lady in the Mall \r
Pros: Expert, Professional, Friendly, Great Results
Cons: 2-Minute ""Retouch"" but I feel the love & I love the results
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