Update: As of July 7, 2012, Tim Harlan has NO LICENSE to practice as a counselor in California. He relinquished his license willingly rather than publicly admit his wrongdoing. The official Accusation against him is deemed TRUE. You can read it.
I went to counseling from Harlan for over a year. He also counseled my wife individually and us as a couple. He and my ex-wife had an affair that lasted over a year. My ex-wife and I sued him and settled out of court. Harlan lost his case in the official Accusation by the Attorney General's offices of the state of CA and his been forced, after five years if denial, to give up his license. He is the single most UN-ethical person I have ever met.
Go to http://www.bbs.ca.gov/... to view and read the accusation against him. This can also be found on the website for the CA Board of Behavioral Sciences. Additionally, I still have his love letters to my ex-wife and even a voice recording of Harlan admitting the sexual and inappropriate nature of that relationship.
Sorry if he fooled you, he fooled me, too.
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